A practical guide
How to make a Mother’s Day or Father’s Day video
A short, personal film means more than a long one. Here’s how to make it feel like them.
01Pick one thread
Decide what the film is about: their whole life, the years they raised you, or one thing they taught you. A clear focus makes a two-minute film feel complete.
02Choosing the photos
For a short film, 15 to 30 photos is plenty. Look for:
- A photo of them as a child or a young adult, before they were a parent
- Holding you, or each of their children, as babies
- Ordinary days: cooking, fixing things, driving, laughing
- A recent photo, ideally with the family
03Writing what to say
Write as you’d speak to them. Short, honest sentences carry the most. These questions help:
- What did they always say to you?
- What did they work hard for that you only understood later?
- What do you do today because of them?
- What do you want to thank them for?
04Bring in brothers and sisters
Ask each sibling for a few photos and one memory. A line from each of you gives the film more than one point of view, and makes it a gift from all of you.
05Plan around the day
Mother’s Day and Father’s Day fall on different dates in different countries, so check the date where they live. Gathering photos and approving the script usually takes an evening; start a few days ahead so there’s time for the film to be made. If they’ve passed away, a short tribute film is a gentle way to remember them together on the day.
06Giving it
How they see it matters almost as much as the film.
- Watch it with them if you can: it’s a lovely moment to share
- Or send the private link with a short note of your own
- Download a copy for yourself, too